How to get in a Sexy Mood
Feeling warmth and closeness is essential to keeping your relationship fresh and alive. But you aren’t always in the mood for getting close. Worries, work, stress and other problems often get in the way. Sometimes we’re just too tired to give our partner or our relationship the attention they deserve. So what do you do? How do you get in a sexy mood and warm things up? Here are some ideas on how to get in a sexy mood. For one thing, why not try a little exercise? It doesn’t have to be too strenuous. A decent walk at a medium pace can increase your libido. A half hour on the ellipsis machine can make you feel brand new. Exercise gives you energy and a more positive body image. It will boost your self-esteem too. And what’s sexier than a little confidence? Try stimulating your senses. Why not put on a sexy scent to charm your lover or just yourself? Wear sensual fabrics that feel amazing while they rub against your body all day. Suede, silk, or satin are great choices. Not only that, but your partner might be so enamored with how soft your garment looks, they’ll want to reach out and touch you. Make it a whole ensemble and they won’t be able to keep their hands off of you!
Why not put on a performance? Dance in your living room to music you love. Belt out your favorite tune on the album. Good music can definitely get you in a sexy mood. Why stop there? Put on a little performance for your lover or even ask them to join in with you. Sometimes in today’s million-mile-a-minute world, we lose focus on other sides of ourselves and what we really like. Getting in tune with what turns you on can be a chance at self-discovery, both to help your lover get more in tune with you, but also just to know about yourself. Why not keep a journal? Have a record of sexy things that happened, or something you saw, smelled, or did that turned you on. Write about your date or your partner. Remind yourself how you really feel about them. Recall some really steamy moments you two shared. Finally, get in touch with the power of touch. When they’re complaining about the traffic jam on the way home from work, reach out and show your concern by holding their hand. After a little while squeeze it and run your thumb over the top of their hand. Or offer them a backrub. Doing something nice for your partner can make them feel better and get them in the mood. And from that you’ll likely get in the mood too.