The worst things you can while getting it on!
2015-03-17
The human mating ritual is a subtle dance and the truth is that most guys have two left feet. One wrong move can have you stepping on her toes, ending things before they even begin. You have to learn the moves right if you want to go all the way. Here are the worst things you can do when getting it on. The truth is we’re all guilty of these at one time or another. Avoid these moves and see your sex life improve. The first mistake guys generally make is not going with the program. The last thing you want to do once you got her all warmed up and she’s purring like a vintage Mustang, is to argue with her about the lights being on or off, drawing the curtains or wearing a condom. Women are the pickier of the species. You need to be flexible in consequence. Submit to her requests and you’ll be getting the green light much more often. If you do stop the proceedings and begin an argument you might not just end your chances, you may have a fight on your hands too. Once things are physical keep the talk to a minimum. Sure some women like dirty talk. But use phrases few and far between. Or else you risk turning her off. Gestures are far more powerful than words. Good eye contact can be sexy too.
You can serenade her as part of your overall seduction scheme. But no matter how many movies you’ve seen that portrays the latter, singing during sex is an absolute mood killer. If you own a business and want repeat business your best chance is to learn what their needs, wants and desires are and go about fulfilling them. The same goes for having good sex. Whatever stage your relationship is in, go about fulfilling your partner’s needs first. Listen carefully to what they like and what they don’t. While engaged in foreplay or during the actual act listen carefully to what makes them moan, curl their toes, or scream out the name of their deity of choice. Also pay attention to what she doesn’t like and avoid those things. Try a number of different moves, strategies and techniques and get her feedback from it. If you go out of your way to fulfill her, she’ll go the extra mile to make you happy. Give her your full and complete attention. If you’re distracted, now isn’t the time to be getting it on. Don’t criticize while things are going on. If she is doing something that hurts, you can gingerly move her on, perhaps nonverbally to another act or doing it in a different way. But don’t criticize her as things are taking shape. Instead, make some genteel suggestions afterward. Perhaps couch them between positive comments during the cuddling phase. Master avoiding these and watch your moves get smoother, and your sex life takeoff.