4 reasons men who don’t watch porn are better lovers

2016-11-08

Watching porn isn’t that harmful unless it’s not done in moderation. Most of us have watched porn at an early age and continued to do so for years. I wonder, often, why would one need to watch porn if you can enjoy actual sex? Do you need to rely on those videos to get you aroused when you have a partner to fulfill those desires? I’m not sure. But then, there are people who are porn addicts and don’t get in the mood without watching a clip or two of erotica.

Watching erotic and kinky is great for experimentation but there’s nothing more pleasing than a nice lovemaking session. Porn is for instant pleasure. There’s no emotion behind it. A few men and women I spoke to said that porn addiction can affect  sex life in  too many ways. In fact, a few men have agreed that watching no porn makes them better lovers. Here’s why:

Porn creates unrealistic expectations about your partner: Porn is scripted. The girl is all dolled up to look glamorous and hot. She’s undergone several surgeries and makeup. Real women have flaws. They may be groomed but can’t dress up and look kinky all the time. A lot of women complained of being body shamed in bed by their partners who watched too much porn. “If your partner doesn’t resemble the porn star, getting aroused gets a little difficult especially if you have watched too much porn since many years. It obviously kills the drive and affects performance in bed,” says Manish from Kolkata. Here’s how watching porn can distort your perception of reality.