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Under-age-24-your-biggest-health-risks-may-surprise you

Under-age-24-your-biggest-health-risks-may-surprise you

2016-11-25

Young Woman Lying on Bed
Young Woman Lying on Bed

Everyone by now has heard the mantra of how important safe sex is. But a new study shows that it is actually more important than originally thought – that just one or two sexual encounters without a condom is becoming increasingly likely to spread a sexually transmitted disease, including Human Papilloma Virus (HPV), which can lead to cervical cancer, and Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) which can lead to infertility and ectopic pregnancy. Of course, those are just some of the risks of unprotected sex. We’ve long been warned about the dangers of HIV and Hepatitis, Herpes, Genital Warts, Syphilis, Gonorrhea and unplanned pregnancy, which can lead to serious physical, emotional, financial, psychological and societal fallout. With all of these dangers so well known, it seems reasonable that people would be taking more preventive steps to stop these maladies, but in a new report from a Lancet Commission, these risks continue to be major plagues of those aged 10- to 24-years-old, according to World News. John Santelli, MD, MPH, and chair of the Heilbrunn Department of Population and Family Health at Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health, said that globally, much more needs to be done to ensure the wellness of young people and prevention of sex-related concerns.

“From a life-course perspective, adolescents stand at the crossroads of the major challenges to global health: HIV/AIDS, intention and unintentional injuries, sexual and reproductive health, and chronic disease. Investments in adolescent health have the potential to alter the future course of global health. Every year of education beyond age 12 is associated with fewer births for adolescent girls and fewer adolescent deaths for boys and girls.”

 

While developed countries typically see less morbidity and fatality than third-world nations, it is important to note that two-thirds of the world’s youth are growing up in countries without critical access to health care, sexual education, birth control, and disease prevention. This is felt on the global level through the intense need for international charities to address concerns in these countries, but it’s not nearly enough. That’s not to say that those young people in first-world countries aren’t severely affected by poor sexual decision-making and lack of accurate sex education – it remains one of the top two health concerns for young people in Europe and the United States as well.

Of interest, and perhaps of correlation, depression is the other major health risk to young people globally between the ages of ten and twenty-four. Depressed people often have difficulty making decisions, or they may be apathetic about their future and take more risks than those who are not depressed, studies have shown. Regardless of etiology, unsafe sex is the fastest growing risk, rising from 13th place in 1990 to 2nd place in 2013, depression is no longer something that can be universally ignored: it is responsible for the “largest amount of ill health” across the world in 2013. The report stated that more than one of ten people aged ten to twenty-four is depressed globally, meaning that many social indicators such as wealth or culture may play less of a role in depression that once believed. In the United States, suicide remains one of the most common causes of death for young people.

 

n fact, according to the National Catholic Register, children are now more likely to die from suicide than from motor vehicle accidents, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Dr. Marsha Levy-Warren, a clinical psychologist who works with adolescents, says that social media is likely a causative factor, particularly for younger teenagers. Interestingly, even third-world countries have considerable access to the internet in various locales.

“It’s clear to me that the question of suicidal thoughts and behavior in this age group has certainly come up far more frequently in the last decade than it had in the previous decade. If something gets said that’s hurtful or humiliating, it’s not just the kid who said it who knows, it’s the entire school or class. In the past, if you made a misstep, it was a limited number of people who would know about it.”

 

Nepal Youths Make Sexual Health Services More Accessible

Nepal Youths Make Sexual Health Services More Accessible

KATHMANDU (IDN)21-year old Pabitra Bhattarai is a shy young woman with a soft voice and a ready smile. But, ask her about sexual health services and the shyness vanishes in an instant as she speaks passionately of how youths of her country must have rights to such services.

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“Our country runs on the shoulders of young people. So, we can’t risk having a country full of young people with HIV. We must have full access to sexual and reproductive health services (SRHR),” she says, suddenly sounding far more mature than her age.

Yet, rhetoric alone doesn’t define Bhattarai who is already counseling and making aware hundreds of youths – most of them high school students – in SRHR. “I have been to over 20 schools in Bhaktapur, Kirtipur and Lalitpur,” she says.

Youths for youths

On a late October morning, IDN catches up with Bhattarai and two other youths as they set out for a school to a government-run high school. The youths, trained and supported by Marie Stopes International (MSI) – a global organization working on SRHR – are part of a 10-member group called ‘Rocket and Space’ that aims to educate in and give access to SRHR to every youth of their city and region.

The youths try to flag down a taxi in Putali Sadak – a busy marketplace of Kathmandu. But soon they learn that there is a taxi strike in the city and the only vehicle available to them is a newspaper delivery van with no seats. This however fails to dampen their spirits as they readily sit on the floor of the van and start, ready for an hour-long drive to a government-run high school in Baudha neighborhood.

They have been invited by the principal of the school, Bhattarai reveals, to speak with the students in 11th and 12th grade about sexual health and hygiene. “They think we can do it better (than them),” she says with a tinge of pride in her voice.

“No taboo” education

An hour later, the three youths tumble out of the van and enter a fortress-like building of the government-run school. Sitting in two semi-dark rooms of the 3 stories building are about a hundred adolescent boys and girls. While her male colleagu Suraj meets the boys, Bhattarai and her female colleague Deepali Pradhan head for the girls room.

The school authorities have specially requested the volunteers to tell the girl students about menstrual hygiene, Pradhan informs. So, for next 45 minutes, the young women explain to their audience the process of menstruation: they start a conversation by asking the students what changes when they have their first periods.

The students typically look at each other and smile nervously. The youth workers encourage them to speak, saying, “Look, I am just like you, I am like your elder sister”. Slowly, a girl stands up and says “sprouting of breasts”. Bhattarai asks everyone to clap for student. With that, the ice begins to melt.

For the next 45 minutes, Bhattarai and Pradhan touch upon all aspects of menstruation: the expected physical changes, the cramps, the menstrual cycle and how to count it and the importance of maintaining hygiene during this cycle. “Their family members and their teachers feel embarrassed to talk about these things. And the girls also feel shy to ask. But when we talk, they listen. They think, we are their friends,” Pradhan says.

In the boys’ room, Suraj Khadka, the young Rocket and Space member, talks about adolescence, physical attraction to the opposite sex, masturbation, condoms and the importance of safe sex.

Batting for the Disabled

Dan Bahadur is 19 years old and physically challenged. Since May this year, he has been educating fellow youths with disability in his city on SRHR.

There are 3 million people with disability in Nepal today, says Bahadur, and nearly half of them young. Not long ago, they were socially ostracized, he says: “People looked down upon the disabled. They were seen as people who brought bad luck to others.” Today, however, there are special facilities for people with disability, including quota in educational institutions and government jobs.

Yet, when it comes to sexual health, the disabled people, especially youths are normally forgotten. Bahadur wants to change that, but so far, the goal has remained a big challenge. “People laugh at me when I talk of SRHR. Some think it is weird and even ask me, “do disabled people have normal sexual needs?”

There are, however, a lot of people who give him support. Many of them are from people with disability themselves, including players from the national Wheelchair Basketball Association – an institution promoting and campaigning for sportspersons with disability. Bahadur has met several players, made them aware of their SRHR rights, including contraception, abortion, counseling on sexual health and hygiene.

Nilima Raut, MSI’s Youth project manager explains, “The main slogan of the UN of Sustainable Development Goals itself is ‘Leaving No One Behind’ and in reaching out to disabled youths we are making an effort to achieve that.”

Talking Sex in a conservative society

Here are, however, challenges galore as Nepali society is largely conservative where premarital sex is a taboo. Vinuka Basnet, a 20-year old college student says that her parents were shocked when they came to know she was working as a sexual health worker. ‘They were embarrassed and afraid that now everyone would point at me and say “she talks of sex”. It took a long time for her to pursue her parents, she recalls.

Suraj Khadka says that since the school syllabus does not include sex education, students do not see his lessons as important enough. “They laugh and ask me questions that are irrelevant.” He, however, has a solution: “Let them laugh, but encourage them to ask what’s relevant to them.”

Others like Dan Bahadur often find communicating sexual health in their local language very challenging: “Take ‘nightfall’ for example. There are no synonyms for that in Nepali. Disabled youths who have spinal injury will have nightfall, but cannot feel it as they are paralyzed down the waste. It’s important for them, as well as for those who care for them to know this, so they can maintain cleanliness. But when I try to explain this, I am at loss of words,”

Youth-friendly tools

But, since success of the youth SRHR educators depends on their communication with their fellow youths, they have formulated innovative ways to overcome the communication barriers.

Vinuka Basnet shows off some of the tools that include coloured pictures of male and female anatomy and reproductive organs, posters, brightly colored T-shirts and bracelets with slogans such as “No condom, no sex” and “I am a rock star”.

They carry these tools with them at every meeting. While the posters and the pictures are used to educate the youths, the shorts and the bracelets are distributed among the attendees for positive and enthusiastic response.

Meeting the Unmet needs

Nepal legalized abortion in 2002 to achieve the MDG 5, the Millennium Development Goal 5 (to decrease maternal mortality by 134/10,000 by 2015). During the MDGs era (2000-2015), the country made significant progress and the mortality rate decreased from 581/10,1000 live births to 281/10,000 live births (National Demographic heath survey, 2011).

Yet, latest statistics show that Nepal (27.5%) still has a very high unmet need for contraception in the Asia region. In terms of unmet need indicator, at least 14% and 12% of married or in-union women of reproductive age, in Southern Asia and South-Eastern Asia want to delay or avoid a pregnancy and are not able to do. Also, almost half the population is unaware that abortion is legal in the country.

This is where the youth health volunteers are making a big contribution, taking SRHR to the most vulnerable and needy sections of the society: migrant workers, slum dwellers and young women whose husbands have gone abroad to work as migrant workers.

23-year old Kavita Chulagani is a young mother whose husband works in the Middle East as a driver. Kavita uses vaginal implants as a contraceptive, which she received for free at a clinic run by the Meryl Stopes clinic. It would have been very difficult for me to access this,” says the young mother who lives in a slum in the city outskirts, “but the youth workers directed me to this place. Now I am telling women of my neighborhood to come here too,” she says.

According to Raut, there has been over 100% increase in the demand for SRHR services since the youth project started. “There are still a lot of people to reach, but the increasing demand gives us hope,” she concludes. [IDN-InDepthNews – 24 November 2016]

Photo: Youths of Rocket and Space group in Kathmandu brainstorm on how to make their presentations on Sexual and Reproductive Rights more effective. Credit: Stella Paul | IDN-INPS

I’m Married…Do I Still Need to Get an HIV Test?

I’m Married…Do I Still Need to Get an HIV Test?

2016-11-15

hiv-and-marriage’m willing to bet most married people don’t use condoms. As a woman I encountered while tabling at a health fair the other day might put it, “Isn’t that the whole point Marriage is about trust. Unplanned pregnancies and getting HIV shouldn’t be an issue once you’re married.” And maybe she has a point. So why can’t I help but cringe during my work day as a sexual health hotline specialist every time a caller tells me, “I’m married so I haven’t been tested in years.”?

 

Maybe it’s because as a married woman who has worked in the sexual and reproductive health field for almost 8 years I know that a wedding ring isn’t nearly as effective at protecting you against HIV/STIs as a condom, but before I climb onto my sex educator soapbox, I think it’s important to mention that I don’t use condoms with my husband either. However, I think what bothers me when women dismiss regular testing as a part of their sexual healthcare is the implication that getting tested must mean you don’t trust your partner or that someone has to be cheating.

Most days when I talk to women about missed periods, yeast infections and even fertility awareness as they ask for help pinpointing their ovulation so they can discover who the father of their child is (the hardest calls are the ones where I honestly can’t confirm between the two men because the sexual encounters were too close together) I’m just happy to get a woman to see a gynecologist. With more and more people being unable to afford insurance and access routine healthcare, it’s not out of the ordinary for women to tell me that the only time they see and OB/GYN is when they’re pregnant. What bothers me most about the idea that HIV/STI testing is unnecessary in a committed relationship is the idea that those things are the only reason to see a medical professional.

I still get tested regularly, and it’s not because I don’t trust my husband, it’s more so because while I’m getting my annual exam to make sure I’m free from fibroids, ovarian cysts and bacterial vaginosis, I figure why the hell not? With 14 million new HPV infections occurring each year, there’s more to maintaining your sexual health than making sure your boyfriend hasn’t “burnt” you. So please, save the “I’m married. STIs don’t happen to me” excuse for someone who thinks that moral superiority actually means anything to cervical cancer. STIs don’t just happen to promiscuous commitment-phobes, they happen to women who have been asymptomatic for years who although may be faithful to their current partner, haven’t had a pap smear in years so they don’t know they’re infected with HPV. They happen to women who don’t realize the “change in their bodily odor” is not due to age but a persistent case of bacterial vaginosis that the never bothered to get diagnosed all because they were too busy being a wife instead of a patient. And yes, they happen to women who thought that marriage was supposed to mean trust, but their husbands missed the message and have now infected them with HIV after years of infidelity.

Much like a pre-nup, if your partner has the best intentions for you and nothing to hide, an HIV/STI test shouldn’t make or break your marriage. Anyone that loves you should want you to take whatever steps you think are necessary to protect yourself without being offended. But most importantly, married or not, your love for your partner should never take priority over your respect for yourself. This is coming from a woman who STILL hasn’t managed to schedule a wellness visit for herself despite making sure hubby got his cholesterol check and my toddler got her flu shot. I get it, as a wife and mother it becomes all too easy to put yourself last and convince yourself that it’s OK because you’re “living the dream”. But don’t get it twisted: Sexual health isn’t something that ceases because homeboy decided to make an “honest woman out of you” and you shouldn’t use the comfort of marriage and kids to stop prioritizing your health as a woman.

Toya Sharee is a community health educator and parenting education coordinator who has a  passion for helping  young women build their self-esteem and make well-informed choices about their sexual health.  She also advocates for women’s reproductive rights and blogs about  everything from beauty to love and relationships. Follow her on Twitter @TheTrueTSharee or visit her blog, Bullets and Blessings.

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4 reasons men who don’t watch porn are better lovers

4 reasons men who don’t watch porn are better lovers

2016-11-08

Watching porn isn’t that harmful unless it’s not done in moderation. Most of us have watched porn at an early age and continued to do so for years. I wonder, often, why would one need to watch porn if you can enjoy actual sex? Do you need to rely on those videos to get you aroused when you have a partner to fulfill those desires? I’m not sure. But then, there are people who are porn addicts and don’t get in the mood without watching a clip or two of erotica.

Watching erotic and kinky is great for experimentation but there’s nothing more pleasing than a nice lovemaking session. Porn is for instant pleasure. There’s no emotion behind it. A few men and women I spoke to said that porn addiction can affect  sex life in  too many ways. In fact, a few men have agreed that watching no porn makes them better lovers. Here’s why:

Porn creates unrealistic expectations about your partner: Porn is scripted. The girl is all dolled up to look glamorous and hot. She’s undergone several surgeries and makeup. Real women have flaws. They may be groomed but can’t dress up and look kinky all the time. A lot of women complained of being body shamed in bed by their partners who watched too much porn. “If your partner doesn’t resemble the porn star, getting aroused gets a little difficult especially if you have watched too much porn since many years. It obviously kills the drive and affects performance in bed,” says Manish from Kolkata. Here’s how watching porn can distort your perception of reality.

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Eating date fruit will increase sexual performance, libido — Experts

Eating date fruit will increase sexual performance, libido — Experts

Two experts on Monday in Lagos advised men to eat dates fruit, saying its consumption would enhance their sexual performance and increase their libido.

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They told the News Agency of Nigeria(NAN) that dates fruit, when taken appropriately by men, could also improve health conditions in many other ways.

Dr Aminu Kazeem, a sexual health therapist who works at Energy for Sex Clinic in Lagos said men who had performance problems should incorporate dates in their diet.


He said “a date fruit is a one-seeded fruit of the date palm tree, which is botanically known as Phoenix dactylifera and belongs to the family of Palmae (Arecaceae) plant.

“The common English names are dried dates, dates, date palm, etc; usually oblong, with varying sizes, shapes, colours, consistencies and quality.

“Eating dates will promote sperm quality and quantity as it is one of the best natural fruits used for male fertility.

“It also increases the size of testes in men and the size of breast in women.

“Consuming the fruit can help to treat sexual disorders because it is a natural aphrodisiac.”

He explained that dates contained high levels of estradiol and flavonoid which aid sperm motility and increase sperm count.

He also urged men who want to improve their masculinity to eat the fruit, stressing that “sexual health is important for both husband and wife for a good and everlasting relationship.”

A nutritionist, Mrs Toyin Adeola, also said that eating dates could treat sexual impotence, help to improve sexual activities and increase the production of sex hormones.

She added that the fruit was good for the health of both males and female.

She said “date contains many vitamins and minerals which are essential to boost sexual power even in older persons.

“The fruit is packed with amino acids for sexual stamina, as well as a good dose of fruity sugars which make them sweet.”

The nutritionist, who described the best way it could be taken to achieve best result, however,
advised diabetic patients to seek doctor’s advise before consuming dates.

She said “it is advisable to remove the seed and grind seven or eight pieces of dates and soak in water for about 2-3 hours.

“Add one glass of milk and one teaspoon of honey and drink at least once a day to boost sexual power.”

She also advised both men and women to eat natural foods that could enhance sexual stamina than taking pills made with chemicals which may harm sexual health.

NAN reports that the fruit is very popular in the market, especially where they hawk fruits.

Date fruit is popular in the northern part of the country and can be seen being hawked along with tiger nuts.

Negative Attitudes Slow Acceptance of Bisexuality

Negative Attitudes Slow Acceptance of Bisexuality

2016-11-04

By Rick Nauert PhD

Although positive attitudes toward gay men and lesbians have increased over recent decades, a new study shows attitudes toward bisexual men and women are relatively neutral, if not ambivalent.

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Researchers at Indiana University Center for Sexual Health Promotion say their study is only the second to explore attitudes toward bisexual men and women in a nationally representative sample. Investigators define bisexuality as the capacity for physical, romantic, and/or sexual attraction to more than one sex or gender.

The study is also the first to query attitudes among a sample of gay, lesbian and other-identified individuals (pansexual, queer and other identity labels), in addition to those who identify as heterosexuals.

The study, led by Dr. Brian Dodge, an associate professor in the Department of Applied Health Science and associate director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion, was recently published in PLOS ONE.

The nationally representative sample was taken from the Center for Sexual Health Promotion’s 2015 National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior.

“While recent data demonstrates dramatic shifts in attitude (from negative to positive) toward homosexuality, gay/lesbian individuals, and same-sex marriage in the U.S., most of these surveys do not ask about attitudes toward bisexuality or bisexual individuals,” Dodge said.

“And many rely on convenience sampling strategies that are not representative of the general population of the U.S.”

The study looked at five negative connotations, found in previous studies, associated with bisexual men and women — including the idea that bisexuals are confused or in transition regarding their sexual orientation, that they are hypersexual and that they are vectors of sexually transmitted diseases.

The research showed that a majority of male and female respondents, more than one-third, were most likely to “neither agree nor disagree” with the attitudinal statements.

In regard to bisexual men and women having the capability to be faithful in a relationship, nearly 40 percent neither agreed nor disagreed.

Those who identified as “other” had the most positive attitudes toward bisexuality, followed by gay/lesbian respondents and then heterosexuals.

Age played a factor in the results, with participants under the age of 25 indicating more positive attitudes toward bisexual men and women. Income and education also played a role: Higher-income participants were more likely to report more positive attitudes toward bisexual men and women, in addition to participants with higher levels of education.

Overall, attitudes toward bisexual women were more positive than attitudes toward bisexual men.

“While our society has seen marked shifts in more positive attitudes toward homosexuality in recent decades, our data suggest that attitudes toward bisexual men and women have shifted only slightly from very negative to neutral,” Dodge said.

“That nearly one-third of participants reported moderately to extremely negative attitudes toward bisexual individuals is of great concern given the dramatic health disparities faced by bisexual men and women in our country, even relative to gay and lesbian individuals.”

Bisexual men and women face a disproportionate rate of physical, mental, and other health disparities in comparison to monosexuals — those who identify as exclusively heterosexual and exclusively homosexual, Dodge said.

Although research has not determined the cause, Dodge said that negative attitudes and stigma associated with bisexuality could play a role.

Data from the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior shows that approximately 2.6 percent of adult men and 3.6 percent of adult women in the U.S. identify as bisexual.

For females, that number is more than double the number of women who identify as lesbian, 0.9 percent. When it comes to adolescents, 1.5 percent of male adolescents (age 14 to 17) and 8.4 percent of female adolescents identify as bisexual.

Dodge said he hopes the results emphasize the need for efforts to decrease negative stereotypes and increase acceptance of bisexual individuals as a component of broader initiatives aimed at tolerance of sexual and gender minority individuals.

“After documenting the absence of positive attitudes toward bisexual men and women in the general U.S. population, we encourage future research, intervention, and practice opportunities focused on assessing, understanding, and eliminating biphobia — for example, among clinicians and other service providers — and determining how health disparities among bisexual men and women can be alleviated,” he said.

Source: University of Indiana

Diet And Exercise Plan To Improve Your Sex Life, From Increasing Blood Flow To Indulging In Dark Chocolate

Diet And Exercise Plan To Improve Your Sex Life, From Increasing Blood Flow To Indulging In Dark Chocolate

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Sex life fluctuates; sometimes it’s amazing and you’re happy about it, while there comes the period when you notice both your performance and sex life decline. Although most men tend to think this issue happens to them and there’s something wrong with their abilities in the bed, you should bear in mind that millions of people around the world experience these issues. Both sexual health and performance depend on numerous factors such as low testosterone, lifestyle, general health status, and so on. The best way to tackle these concerns is to make some lifestyle tweaks that are bound to power up your sex life. Practicing yoga and eating the right foods is a good way to start.

YOGA AND SEX LIFE

Yoga is the ancient practice of physical, mental, and spiritual disciplines that reduce the stress levels, improve flexibility and range of motion, prevent a wide array of diseases and have a tremendous potential to boost your sex health. Yoga boosts sexual performance, particularly in men who want to develop body stamina. It’s also important to mention that this practice improves blood flow throughout the body, including the genital area, which is essential for the erection and optimal performance in bed.

Scientists from India carried out the study to analyze the efficacy of yoga in male sexual functioning. The study included 65 men who were assigned to 12 weeks of yoga practices followed by questionnaire about their sex life and performance. Findings were presented in the Journal of Sexual Medicine and showed that after the completion of yoga, sexual functions scores significantly improved regarding desire, intercourse satisfaction, performance, confidence, erection, orgasm, ejaculatory control, and so on.

The International Journal of Yoga published a review which focused on benefits of yoga for men and their sexual and reproductive health. The researchers discovered that yoga is proven to be excellent for prostate health, wards off prostate disorders, and reduces the size of the enlarged prostate gland. The review also showed that regular yoga practice reduces stress levels and anxiety, a factor that improves the health of reproductive organs. Scientists elaborate that lower stress levels improve sex life and treat mild erectile dysfunction.

YOGA POSES FOR BETTER SEX

Now that you know how effective yoga is for overall sexual health and functioning, you’re probably thinking about trying it out. Below, you see examples of yoga poses you can do to power up your sex life for both yours and the partner’s satisfaction:

  • Butterfly pose
  • Seated forward bend
  • Chair pose
  • Cobra pose
  • Sat Kriya pose
  • Frog pose
  • Plow pose
  • Bridge pose

Find the instructions for these sex-boosting yoga poses here. If you’re not flexible, there’s no need to worry. Bear in mind that your flexibility will improve over time. Also, just like you would consult your doctor over the choice of top male enhancement tips for sex life, you should also ask a yoga expert about proper execution of these postures.

DIET AND SEX LIFE

Foods you eat have a major impact on your overall health and wellbeing, sex life is no exception. For instance, the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition published results of the study which proved that increased fruit consumption improves male sexual health. Phytochemicals found in berries and citrus fruits help men maintain healthy erections. In fact, scientists discovered that eating flavonoid-rich foods is as good for erectile function as briskly walking for two to five hours a week.

The journal Diabetes Care featured a study which proved that adherence to the Mediterranean diet improves sexual functioning in men with type 2 diabetes. Since millions of men around the world are affected by this disease, it is useful to know that following a simple eating pattern (which also includes an abundance of fruit) can help you perform better in bed.

FOODS TO EAT

To power up your sex life, it’s useful to limit or completely avoid intake of unhealthy foods with zero nutritional value. Instead, replace them with healthier alternatives that deliver vitamins, minerals, and other nutrients to your body, thus improving sexual health as well. Here are just some, of many, foods you can include in your menu:

  • Spinach and other green leafy vegetables
  • Unsweetened tea
  • Peaches
  • Eggs
  • Seeds and nuts
  • Beans
  • Red meat (in moderation)
  • Fatty fish
  • Oatmeal and other whole grains
  • Oysters and shellfish
  • Dark chocolate
  • Strawberries

 

Starting with natural treatments for sex performance is always recommended primarily because they treat the root of the problem, they don’t just mask the symptoms. Speaking of natural solutions, dietary supplements should also be considered, particularly if the problems you experience are more complicated.

Conclusion

Benefits of yoga and diet for sexual functioning are well-documented. If you want to improve sex life and overall performance in bed, be proactive; change your menu and practice yoga. Both solutions are easy to execute and bring a lot of benefits your way.

Author Bio

David Gomes completed his M.S Professional degree in California Institute of Technology. He lives in Oakland, Calif. He loves to write on a variety of topics such as joint health, weight loss, beauty, and skin care for blogs and online publication sites. He also loves latest technology, gadgets.You can connect with him on Google+ and Twitter.

Four things you shouldn’t do before sex

Four things you shouldn’t do before sex

2016-10-31

By Gistmaster

When it comes to sex, it is every married couple’s desire to enjoy it and still be able to relish the thought of it thereafter. Apart from the numerous health benefits of sex to the human system, the pleasure that comes with it is electrifying and almost unrivalled.
Notably, there are many routes to sexual satisfaction, but the mostly adopted means of reaching climax is through intercourse, which is about the most effective for men, unlike women who are more likely to reach orgasm faster through nipple or clitoral stimulation.
Sex is to be enjoyed, but understandably, there are medical conditions that prevent or forbid people from having sex, usually for some time. Meanwhile, beyond those conditions, there are some other things people do that may tamper with how much they enjoy sex and even impact on their overall health afterwards.
Some of these issues directly affect sexual performance, while some are safety tips. Hence, it may be helpful to discuss what people should take cognisance of when they are about to have a romp in the sack so as to enjoy it and guide against infection. These include:
Shaving or waxing before sex: Due to the belief that the pubic hair could breed unpleasant smell and because some people do find it disgusting, people tend to shave or use wax to remove the hair in that region. But inasmuch as being ‘clean’ in that region is seen as a good hygienic practice, experts have advised that it is advisable not to shave before sex, simply because shaving or waxing tends to open up the small pores in the skin and while the sexual activity is ongoing, body contact could lead to infection, or rashes, which could multiply in little time because the place is usually warm and so germs and bacteria could multiply there quickly. Some people shave shortly before sex because of the feeling that their partner might find the pubic hair unattractive.
A medical doctor, Emily Gibson, said removal of pubic hair would always inflame the hair follicles in that region and leave some open wounds that could cause irritation of the shaved or waxed area, leading to the spread of sexually transmitted infections.
She added, “When that irritation is combined with the warm moist environment of the genitals, it becomes a happy culture media for some of the nastiest of bacterial pathogens, namely group A streptococcus, staphylococcus aureus and its recently mutated cousin, methicillin resistant staph aureus.
“There is an increase in staph boils and abscesses, necessitating incisions to drain the infection, resulting in scarring that can be significant.   It is not at all unusual to find pustules and other hair follicle inflammation papules on shaved genitals.
“Additionally, I’ve seen cellulitis, soft tissue bacterial infection without abscess of the scrotum, labia and penis from spread of bacteria from shaving or from sexual contact with strep or staph bacteria from a partner’s skin. And some clinicians are finding that freshly shaved pubic areas and genitals are also more vulnerable to herpes infections due to the microscopic wounds being exposed to virus carried by mouth or genitals. It follows that there may be vulnerability to spread of other STIs as well.”
Also, a consultant endocrinologist, Dr. Michael Olamoyegun, explained that shaving before sex does not influence performance, but that “in the course of shaving, the person can sustain injuries, and during sex, there would be body contact and the ease of transmitting infection into the injured area would be high because the pubic hair serves as a form of protection.”
So, to avoid infections from creeping into your system courtesy of sex, never shave before sex.
Smoking: Apart from the negative effect smoking has on the heart, it turns out that it also has an effect on people’s sexual performance. It could reduce libido as it lowers testosterone (sex hormone) levels, hence, people are advised not to smoke before sex. The same applies to taking alcohols. According to a sexual health expert, Dr. Vijaysarathi Ramanathan, smoking could affect a man’s erection. He said, “Smoking affects almost every system/organ of the body including sexual functioning. People need to understand that erection in men has a lot to do with a healthy heart, blood vessels and good blood flow. So anything that affects blood flow will definitely affect the erection.”
In his explanation on Health Site, he said further that Nicotine, a toxic oily liquid that is the chief active constituent of tobacco, could clog the arteries and restrict blood flow to the genitals, which would affect performance.
For couples aiming at pregnancy, Ramanathan said smoking could also lower a man’s sperm count; cause genetic damage to the sperm and reduce the ability of the sperm to swim to where it will fertilise the egg. And in women, it could also cause sex-related problems, like reduced sex drive, among others.
On smoking, Olamoyegun said the constituents of cigarettes can narrow the arteries and veins that supply blood to the penis. “Smoking causes vasoconstriction; narrowing the blood vessel, so, the amount of blood that goes into the penis will reduce. And since the erection of the penis has to do with blood flow, it may affect the man’s erection.
Eating too much or taking energy drinks: No doubt, sex is an activity that is very involving and tiring, and so it is not uncommon for some people to eat before sex as if they are going to fight, especially men, all in the name of preparing for the act. But findings have shown that it is better to eat snacks, nuts or light food before doing ‘it’ to avoid feeling drowsy. In the same vein, experts have said that people should do away with heavy, gassy and high-fibre food to avoid frustrating the partner with a sluggish and poor performance eventually. So, it is not the time to eat five wraps of heavy food like someone going to the war front. Also, it has been found that it is not advisable to take energy drinks. People do this to have some energy to ‘deliver’ but experts have said the impact may not last long and that it tends to leave the person tired and weak after a (short) while.
According to Olamoyegun, sex, just like other forms of exercise, should not be preceded by eating heavy food. He said, “Normally, if you want to do any exercise, including sex, you are not supposed to take any heavy meal, because doing so could lead to aspiration in the course of the activity; the food can come from the stomach to the air pipe, and that is not good. So, it is better to eat a light food.
Masturbating: This is one tactic some people use, usually done hours before the intercourse, so as to prolong sex and it is mostly done by men who have premature ejaculation or women who crave prolonged sex. They believe that having ejaculated (men) or reached orgasm (women) moments before the sex would delay their next orgasm, but findings have shown that such can make erection almost impossible and the fact that it can kill sex drive when it comes to having real intercourse with someone of the opposite sex. Ultimately, experts have found that masturbation can be addictive, and after engaging in it for a long time, such persons tend to lose interest in real sex. So, to have a sustained healthy sexuality, masturbating should not be an option.
Meanwhile, medical experts have advised that if a woman pees after sex, it could reduce the likelihood of her getting urinary tract infection. They said the urine would have flushed out any bacteria present. It is not a must, but it is helpful.
Olamoyegun had this to say on it, “The vagina and the urethra are close, so after sex, if you pee, you flush out the bacteria before it settles into the tract. You don’t necessarily have to do that but it could be helpful too.”

Why Can’t I Orgasm During Sex? Chronic Pain And 5 Other Factors That Affect Ability To Climax

Why Can’t I Orgasm During Sex? Chronic Pain And 5 Other Factors That Affect Ability To Climax

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Imagine this: You and your partner are getting hot and heavy in between the sheets. You’re feeling sexually aroused — but you’re unable to climax. In frustration you ask yourself: “Why can’t I orgasm during sex?”

The Kinsey Institute indicates 20 to 30 percent of women don’t have orgasms during intercourse, compared to only 5 percent of men who don’t climax every time they have sex. Men and women who are unable to sustain an erection or reach orgasm, respectively, are usually labeled as having some type of sexual dysfunction. However, the inability to orgasm could be triggered by several issues that range from physiological to psychological.

Below are six causes of why you have trouble orgasming during sex.

TIGHT CONDOMS

Condoms are often seen as an “evil” necessity that reduces sensitivity and sensations for men. The truth is condoms can inhibit male orgasm if they do not fit properly. A condom that is too tight can feel like the penis is in a chokehold, which can be distraction, and make it difficult to keep an erection. A 2015 studyin journal Sexual Health found about 52 percent of men report losing an erection before, or while putting a condom on or after inserting into the vagina while wearing a condom.

STRESS

High levels of stress impact your psychological and physiological health, which can interfere with the ability to orgasm. This makes it harder to concentrate on the sensation and relax during sex. Women with high salivary cortisol and stress levels have significantly less desire to masturbate or have sex with their partner.

Stress causes us to produce fewer sex hormones, like estrogen and testosterone, and more cortisol and stress hormones. When the body releases cortisol, a fight-or-flight response kicks in, and redirects the blood flow away from the sex organs, causing you to breathe shallowly.

DEPRESSION

Depression affects your mood, and even the desire to have sex. A 2000 study in the American Family Physician found 70 percent of adults facing depression without treatment had problems with their sex drive. This is because sexual desire starts in the brain as sex organs rely on chemicals in the brain to jumpstart your libido, and change blood flow. Depression disrupts these brain chemicals, making sexual activity more difficult to initiate and enjoy.

CHRONIC PAIN

More than 75 million people live  with persistent or debilitating pain, according to the national pain foundation, which can often lead to a low sex drive. Chronic pain sufferers find it difficult to feel pleasure during sex since the body hurts all the time. This is unfortunate since having an orgasm can alleviate some pains and aches.

PRESCRIPTION MEDS

Drugs tend to be among the most common causes of sexual problems. Prescription meds are responsible for as many as one of every four cases of sexual dysfunction. A 2002 study published in Family Practicefound statins and fibrates (used in lowering LDL “bad” cholesterol) may cause erectile dysfunction, whilelater research has found both men and women taking statins showed increased difficulty achieving orgasm. The levels of sexual pleasure declined along with LDL cholesterol.

NEGATIVE BODY IMAGE

When you feel good about your body, you tend to feel better psychologically as well. The mind-body connection is imperative in sexual pleasure. For example, if you feel bad about your body, it;ll become more difficult to enjoy sex and have orgasms. A 2009 study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found women between the ages 18 to 49 who scored high on a body image scale were the most sexually satisfied. Positive feelings associated with weight, physical condition, sexual attractiveness, and thoughts about our body during sex help promote healthy sexual functioning.

Majority of ‘Unprecedented’ High Rate of Syphilis Cases Are Gay, Bisexual Men

Majority of ‘Unprecedented’ High Rate of Syphilis Cases Are Gay, Bisexual Men

2016-10-25

by DR. SUSAN BERRY

A report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) states that a majority of the record high rates of syphilis found in the United States is due to the sexual activity of gay and bisexual men.

According to the CDC, the Sexually Transmitted Disease Surveillance 2015 shows, “Ninety percent of reported syphilis cases were in men; and gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) accounted for a majority of these cases.”

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The report states:

Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (collectively referred to as MSM) are at increased risk for STDs, including antimicrobial resistant gonorrhea, when compared to women and exclusively heterosexual men. Because STDs, and the behaviors associated with acquiring them, increase the likelihood of acquiring and transmitting HIV infection, STD incidence among MSM may also be an indicator of higher risk for subsequent HIV infection.

Individual-level risk behaviors, such as number of lifetime sex partners, rate of partner exchange and frequency of unprotected sex, may contribute to disparities observed in the sexual health of MSM. However, population-level factors such as limited or overlapping social and sexual networks are also associated with higher rates of STDs, including HIV among MSM.

CDC is recommending that healthcare providers make STD screening a standard part of medical care, “especially in pregnant women.”

The report found overall that, in 2015, “more cases of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis combined were reported than ever before.”